Self-Respect in the Age of Selfies: Maintaining Dignity in Your Online Presence

Despite the popular belief, you CAN find success outside of the day to day social media swiping and scrolling. It is important in this day and age of constant self-promotion to remember the most important thing of all: self-respect. With the advent of selfies and online fame, it's more important than ever to maintain a sense of dignity and self-worth. In this post, I will share with you some successful tips and tricks on how to maintain a balance between online engagement and real-world self-respect.

The first thing to consider is the type of material that you are posting. It's important to remember that when you post something on social media, it's out there forever. Before you hit send, take a moment to ask yourself if this is something you'd be comfortable with your boss, grandmother, or a potential future employer seeing. It's easy to get caught up in the moment and overshare, but a little restraint can go a long way in maintaining your dignity.

Next, do your best to avoid comparing yourself to others. While unfortunate, social media can be a breeding ground for comparison and self-doubt. It's important to remember that everyone's journey is different, and what you see on social media is often a highlight reel. Don't fall into the trap of comparing your life to someone else's filtered and curated feed. Focus on being content with yourself and your own successes, no matter how small they may seem.

Regardless of the type of post, be sure to enjoy the world around you. What I mean is remember the importance of setting boundaries for yourself. Take a break when you need it, and don't feel pressured to constantly check your phone or post your real-time experiences right away. It's okay to say no to certain things and prioritize your own mental health and well-being. Remember, you are in control of your own online presence and can choose to engage or disengage whenever you see fit. It is important to find offline activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. Whether it's hiking, reading, or spending time with loved ones, prioritizing activities that don't revolve around social media can help you maintain a sense of self and perspective outside of the online world.

Lastly, if you find yourself doubting something you posted or receive negative feedback find a way to tackle the self-doubt head-on. At the end of the day, self-respect comes from within. It's important to recognize that you are worthy and deserving of respect. Sometimes it takes a little extra effort to remind yourself of this, but it's worth it in the end. To take it home, just remember - by being mindful of our social media presence, setting boundaries, and prioritizing offline activities, we can maintain our sense of dignity and self-worth. It's up to us to take control of our own online presence and use it as a tool for positive self-expression and growth.

Now, go and LIVE WELL!